Thursday, October 13, 2011

Youth after Break Up





How many topics can undermine your youth and beauty? Are you wondering how breaking up is concerned with your miracle youth?

Did you ever cry yourself to sleep thinking that you can’t just get over your ex and let them go? If you have, then you have been influenced to believe in the idea of ‘THE ONE’. I had many broken heart experiences and I cried for months. Until I looked myself and I realized that if I didn't look after myself and I didn't love myself, that should have be a reason for men to dump me! Why should I loose my youth for them who never look back and care for me?

Before I began changing my physical, I started with changing my attitude. What did I think? I thought I would turn my crisis circumstance to be opportunity for me. I would be more beautiful, wiser, and younger! Yes...all you hear that was my inspiration in that time. I thought if I met them again by coincidence, they would be stunned! Of course...they would be regret what they did with me...hehe

After I changed my attitude, my program for youth is set up The charm course:

  • Positive; when I was a broken heart, I just thought what I did wrong. I kept thinking over and over what I would never get answers because they wouldn't be back tell me. Therefore the best I could do, was accepting that the relation was over and smiled with myself. I have no one to smile with me and love me anymore so all I can do to get through this to support myself in every good ways.
  • A Rock Star; Telling yourself how great you are! We don't have to wait anyone to tell this. Creating our dominants, that make us even more charming and you will be proud of yourself. When you look back in the past, you will never be regret.
  • Open to new experience; have you ever been afraid to hang out and meet new people? This is the best way for youth, why? As much as you talk with people in different fields and ages, you will get more inspirations and you will realize " life is more pleasure and more space of youth for you ".
  • Courageous to shake things up; Do the things I never did before to bright up my life. What did I do? It was my first trip for backpacker, I decided to see the world and it was fun! I got a few friends along the way that I've still kept in touch! 
Finally I have learned how to love myself fully and I am back to happy with my life. You know what I met one of my boyfriends coincidentally, he gave me compliment that I look younger and asked me if I could watch a movie and had dinner with him! " Hold your breath ",I thought in my mind! 

Let your past make you better, not bitter! Going youth with any circumstances! Life is in your hands!

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